Books That Teach Kids About Feelings (That Parents Actually Like Reading Too)

Let’s be honest: not all children’s books are created equal. Some are sweet but so boring you start reciting them in your sleep. Others are loud, flashy, and make you want to “accidentally” lose them under the couch forever.

But then there are the rare gems — books that help kids understand their big feelings and don’t make parents want to fake a phone call to escape storytime. In 2025, with all the talk about emotional intelligence and social-emotional learning (SEL), parents are searching for stories that matter.

So, here’s a roundup of books about feelings that both kids and parents can actually enjoy.

1. The Color Monster by Anna Llenas

A classic. This book gives kids a simple, visual way to sort emotions by color. Bonus: you’ll love watching your child say, “I feel blue today” and actually know what that means.

2. When Sophie Gets Angry — Really, Really Angry by Molly Bang

Because sometimes kids just need to see that anger happens, it’s normal, and there are healthy ways to calm down (besides launching themselves onto the floor in Target).

3. Anger Is My Monster by Clara Harper

Yes, this is mine — but moms love it because it doesn’t just tell kids to “calm down.” It personifies anger as a silly, tricky monster kids can learn to manage. Suddenly, they’re not “bad” when they’re mad. They’re just learning to tame their monster.

4. Shame Is My Monster by Clara Harper

Another one from my My Inner Monster series. Shame is tricky because kids don’t often have the words for embarrassment or guilt. This book makes those squirmy feelings approachable, and parents have told me it’s opened up conversations they didn’t think their kids were ready for yet.

5. The Invisible Boy by Trudy Ludwig

A beautiful story about loneliness and belonging, reminding kids (and parents) that even the quietest voices deserve to be heard.

Why These Books Work for Parents Too

They’re short enough that bedtime doesn’t last three hours.
They actually open doors for conversation, instead of closing them with “The End.”
They make you feel like you’re doing more than just reading — you’re connecting.

Let’s be real… My books are kick-booty-Awesome

Kids don’t come with an emotional user manual, but my books get pretty close. Reading about feelings gives kids tools for real life — and helps parents feel less alone in the chaos of raising tiny humans with giant emotions. Let’s face it, a home library full of children’s books is still cheaper than family therapy.

Feelings aren’t something to hush up or push down. The right books make emotions less scary, more manageable, and — dare I say it — even kind of fun.

Want More?

Grab the My Inner Monster collection for your home library:

And while you’re at it, pick up my Mom Interrupted workbook — because moms need help with their big feelings, too (mostly in the form of laughter and wine pairings).

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